A Free Monthly Breakfast Meetup for Founders, Leaders, Doers, and Builders Just Like You.
Meet on the last Friday of the month for a 90-minute breakfast to connect and write a note you’ll mail to your future self.
Our Morning Ritual
Every breakfast starts with some bites, caffeine, and a short guided chat, followed by a few quiet minutes to picture yourself 30, 60, or 90 days from now.
A version of you who’s already achieved a goal that matters to you.
It could be personal, professional, or business-related; it’s entirely up to you.
With that image in mind, you’ll write a letter to your future self as if the goal has already happened. You’ll describe what unfolded, the choices you made, the obstacles you navigated, and the small wins along the way.
You’ll seal your letter in a stamped envelope, and whichever time frame you choose for your goal is when it will be mailed back to you (give or take a few days).
Our hope is that you leave our breakfast gatherings with a goal you’re excited about, the first steps to get there, and new connections with people who think like you do.
Think of something you want to make happen in the next 30, 60, or 90 days.
Who are you then?
How do you move through your day?
What’s different about how you think, what you notice, and what you say yes to?
Mental Time Travel
Mental Time Travel
Neuroscientists call this mental time travel¹, your brain’s ability to picture yourself in the future, which can influence the choices you make today with that version of you in mind¹.
When you imagine that future in vivid detail, your brain engages overlapping systems it also uses to remember real experiences¹.
The trick:
By “remembering” a future that has not happened yet, you are increasing the likelihood you notice opportunities², say no to what is misaligned², and build small habits that, when done consistently, compound into the future you want³.
Research shows that pairing this kind of vivid visioning with a concrete, physical action such as sealing it in an envelope taps into what psychologists call implementation intentions⁴ (making a specific plan for when and how you will act). Behavioral scientists also call this a commitment device⁵, something you set up now so your future self is more likely to follow through.
After a short guided chat, you will write a letter to that future self as if:
the goal is already done,
you have lived it, and
you remember the obstacles, decisions, and small wins that got you there.
You will seal it in a stamped envelope and choose when it comes back to you, 30, 60, or 90 days from now. When it lands in your mailbox, the letter is a reminder from the version of you who already knew you could get here.
References
Schacter, D. L., Addis, D. R., & Buckner, R. L. (2007). Remembering the past to imagine the future: The prospective brain. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 8(9), 657–661.
Fujita, K., Trope, Y., Liberman, N., & Levin‐Sagi, M. (2006). Construal levels and self-control. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 90(3), 351–367.
Ouellette, J. A., & Wood, W. (1998). Habit and intention in everyday life. Psychological Bulletin, 124(1), 54–74.
Gollwitzer, P. M. (1999). Implementation intentions: Strong effects of simple plans. American Psychologist, 54(7), 493–503.
Ariely, D., & Wertenbroch, K. (2002). Procrastination, deadlines, and performance: Self-control by precommitment. Psychological Science, 13(3), 219–224.
Upcoming Friday Breakfasts
We host our free meetups in different cities each month.
Honolulu, HI
September 26, 2025
Austin, TX
October 31, 2025
London, United Kingdom
November 28, 2025
Please note: Exact times and locations will be shared with confirmed attendees.
Join the email list and be first to know when seats open
At this time, breakfast seats for each meetup are limited to 10–12 people, and they usually fill from our email list.
In our emails, you’ll get:
✔ Early access to RSVP
✔ Upcoming city meetups before anyone else
✔ Occasional updates on other gatherings we host, like retreats and exclusive discounts
And we promise we won’t spam you. Emails take a lot of time to write, so the likelihood of us having time to write more than one a month is extremely low.